Blogs about dating in forties
Just like how you’ve dated your share of challenging types of men like the Pinger, the Couch Potato and the older-and-balder-than-his-profile-guy…men also meet and enter into relationships with less-than-impressive types of women.
Perhaps it’s been a while since you’ve been “on the market”. You have made friends and let them go when they were not supportive. However, in some respects dating in your 40s and 50s is quite similar to dating in your 20s and 30s. She received her Master’s Degree from Columbia University and her Ph.
You may want to think and act like a 25-year-old, but your seasoning tells another tale and may actually improve the chances for success. Without the pressures of getting married and having children, you can enter into relationships for the “right” reasons, not because you are running out of fertile years. Men and women in their 40s and 50s are generally more self-assured. You are, therefore, more likely to depend on yourself, not your partner, to solve your own dilemmas. You have learned from your previous relationship experiences. The following are some common sense dating principles that apply across the generations.
The truth is that dating does change when you get older…and, in many ways, for the better. They know what they want out of a relationship, what they are looking for in a mate and are not afraid to ask for it. You can take inventory of what time has taught you so that you do not fall into old traps. You can put away the “list” of perfect characteristics that you are seeking in your date. Not every aspect of your romantic life feels critical.
Clients come to me with these limiting ideas about dating, love and men, and it’s my job to help them turn things around.
Working with me, women transform the lies to create opportunities. I hope reviewing these lies opened your mind to new ways of looking at dating over 40.